what’s going on between the clients and me trying to provide very intimate so I would be the person who would probably …The Problem With Betterhelp…be least interested in a context therapy format and and I have been for many years I imply one so my associates do telephone terapy for example I understand an analyst who relocated to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really important that you’re missing out on all these visual hints how can you do that but whatever changed for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
mention the the place where she was but she was on another continent where it was definitely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype work with her because there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anyone else and she needed therapy so I began dealing with her and I ended up having a very good experience with her in fact she had transferred to that place to avoid everybody and there is no chance that she would have wanted to meet with me in a room face-to-face there was no other option in a sense and so it wound up it was surprisingly well I was extremely pleased with that and since then I’ve had a genuine had a genuine change of focus on that and among the things that has actually been most fascinating to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s simply it’s counterproductive I would have believed the major problem with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was occurring in between therapist and patient and yet compared with a lot of the new motions in psychiatric therapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re even more associated with the nature a minimum of the method it’s performed in this outfit it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me entirely migrated I was also amazed to see just how much intimacy you can get back at by writing often even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a bit confidential that that’s been very crucial finding for me as well I have actually been working with Nicole Eames and supervising rather routinely now in the last number of years which’s that is among the things that I really discovered in my deal with her as she talked about her patient they expose things what has shocked me is several times I have actually heard her say the clients have stated that they reveal things to her they never ever exposed to their to their in person therapist and that’s rather amazing among the important things is of course the privacy that that we do not quite locate but here they work with face to face therapist for a year or more and never exposed specific of these things that were that were very outrageous there’s another thing too which is that a client can have an anxiety attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. The Problem With Betterhelp