what’s going on between the clients and me trying to give very intimate so I would be the person who would probably …Shane Betterhelp…be least thinking about a context treatment format and and I have been for many years I indicate one so my associates do telephone terapy for example I know an expert who moved to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt very crucial that you’re missing all these visual cues how can you do that but everything changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an email from from a patient who I can’t even
mention the the location where she was however she was on another continent where it was definitely cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or 6 hundred miles of her and asking whether I would simply do some Skype work with her given that there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she could not see anybody else and she required treatment so I began dealing with her and I ended up having a great experience with her in fact she had transferred to that location to escape everybody and there is no other way that she would have wanted to meet me in a room face-to-face there was no other alternative in a sense therefore it wound up it was surprisingly well I was really amazed with that and ever since I have actually had a real had a genuine change of focus on that and among the things that has actually been most interesting to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s just it’s counterproductive I would have thought the major problem with talk space is that they would not be focusing on the here and now what was happening between therapist and patient and yet compared with many of the brand-new movements in psychotherapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re far more associated with the nature at least the method it’s done in this attire it’s they’re even more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me totally moved I was likewise amazed to see just how much intimacy you can get back at by writing sometimes even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a bit confidential that that’s been very important finding for me as well I have actually been working with Nicole Eames and supervising rather routinely now in the last number of years which’s that is among the important things that I really found in my deal with her as she discussed her patient they expose things what has shocked me is a number of times I’ve heard her state the patients have actually stated that they reveal things to her they never revealed to their to their in person therapist and that’s rather amazing one of the important things is obviously the anonymity that that we do not quite find however here they work with face to face therapist for a year or 2 and never ever revealed particular of these things that were that were really shameful there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and immediately text the therapist. Shane Betterhelp