what’s going on between the clients and me attempting to offer very intimate so I would be the person who would probably …Betterhelp/Kirk…be least thinking about a context treatment format and and I have been for several years I mean one so my colleagues do telephone terapy for example I know an expert who transferred to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really critical that you’re missing all these visual hints how can you do that but everything altered for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a client who I can’t even
point out the the place where she was but she was on another continent where it was definitely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would simply do some Skype deal with her given that there was no other option I I agreed to do that she could not see anyone else and she needed treatment so I began dealing with her and I ended up having a very good experience with her in fact she had actually transferred to that location to get away from everybody and there is no chance that she would have wanted to consult with me in a space face-to-face there was no other option in a sense and so it wound up it was remarkably well I was extremely impressed with that and since then I’ve had a genuine had a genuine change of concentrate on that and among the important things that has been most interesting to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s simply it’s counterintuitive I would have thought the major problem with talk area is that they would not be focusing on the here and now what was happening in between therapist and client and yet compared to much of the new motions in psychiatric therapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re even more involved in the nature a minimum of the way it’s carried out in this outfit it’s they’re far more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me entirely migrated I was also amazed to see just how much intimacy you can get even by writing sometimes even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit confidential that that’s been really crucial finding for me too I have actually been dealing with Nicole Eames and supervising rather routinely now in the last number of years which’s that is among the important things that I truly discovered in my work with her as she spoke about her patient they expose things what has amazed me is several times I have actually heard her say the clients have actually said that they expose things to her they never revealed to their to their in person therapist and that’s rather exceptional one of the important things is obviously the privacy that that we do not rather locate but here they work with face to face therapist for a year or two and never ever revealed particular of these things that were that were extremely shameful there’s another thing too which is that a client can have an anxiety attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. Betterhelp/Kirk