what’s going on between the patients and me attempting to offer very intimate so I would be the individual who would probably …Betterhelp/Ariana…be least interested in a context treatment format and and I have been for many years I imply one so my coworkers do telephone terapy for example I know an analyst who transferred to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really crucial that you’re missing all these visual cues how can you do that however whatever altered for me a few years ago when I got a call an email from from a patient who I can’t even
mention the the place where she was however she was on another continent where it was absolutely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or 6 hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype work with her because there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anyone else and she required therapy so I started dealing with her and I ended up having a very good experience with her in fact she had relocated to that location to get away from everyone and there is no other way that she would have been willing to meet with me in a room in person there was no other option in a sense and so it ended up it was surprisingly well I was really satisfied with that and ever since I’ve had a real had a genuine change of focus on that and among the important things that has actually been most interesting to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s simply it’s counterproductive I would have thought the major issue with talk space is that they would not be focusing on the here and now what was taking place between therapist and client and yet compared with many of the brand-new motions in psychotherapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re far more involved in the nature at least the way it’s performed in this clothing it’s they’re far more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me completely moved I was also surprised to see just how much intimacy you can get back at by writing sometimes even a few of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a bit anonymous that that’s been very essential finding for me too I’ve been dealing with Nicole Eames and supervising rather regularly now in the last number of years which’s that’s one of the things that I truly found in my work with her as she talked about her client they expose things what has shocked me is numerous times I’ve heard her say the patients have actually stated that they reveal things to her they never ever revealed to their to their face-to-face therapist and that’s rather impressive among the things is naturally the privacy that that we do not rather find however here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or more and never exposed specific of these things that were that were very outrageous there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. Betterhelp/Ariana